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what do i do.

PostPosted: Fri May 23, 2003 11:38 am
by midnite
my friend has been going out with a bloke who works at are college.
he 26, 6 years older then her.

he when back to his country 4 a month as he needs to get another visa.
well he had a few problems so he been away more then a month
so they been going out 4 over 2 months.

the problem is she just found out she is expecting a baby.
she is 8 weeks. she only found out tuesday.
she not sure how she is going to tell him when he gets back.

her famil will kick her out if they find out as they are really strick on sex are marriage.

she cant aford to have a child yet,
she is planning to have abortion.

she going have to tell the bloke if he ever comes back this month.
she keeps asking how can she tell him.

i am really worried about her.
she believed if she has this abortion she be ok.
i know she wont she already telling me she is scared of killing the child inside her.
and that it may effect her having children in the future.

i know she going to need help to get through this.
i will even go with her if she like me to.
but she refusing all offers(how ever you spell it) of help she gets.
i feel usless as it is with my problems and even more worest as i cant help her.

PostPosted: Sat May 24, 2003 10:03 pm
by Aldo
just need to be there for her. Hold her hand, shoulder to cry on, and to reassure her she made the right decision.