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Another Problem =(

Postby nufcbabe99 » Wed Apr 23, 2008 7:19 pm

Whyy Me.. 2 Problems In 2 Days

This Time It's A Case Off Not Being Able To Have Boy Mates Without Being Accused Of Fancying Them..

Basicallyy I Have Know This Lad Since We Were Little.. We Have Become Better Mates Over The Years.. He Is Two Years Younger Than Me.. And I Am Good Mates With His Older Sister Who Is 2 Years Older Than Me..

He Is Like A Younger Brother.. I Look Out For Him And You Know You Give Mates Hugs.. Well I Do Too

Problem Is His Sister And My Mates Have This Theory That I Fancy Him.. And Keep On Taunting Me About It.. And One Of My Mates Said "He Doesn't Fancy You.. I Don't Think He Would Go Out With You".. And I Said "I Don't Want Him To!" And She Said She Can Tell When I'm Lying (Apparently I Do Things Like Blink Rapidly And Stuff)

I Told Him About What They Say And He Understands But They've Told Him I Fancy Him And He Believes It Apparently.. But They Do It About Every Lad I'm Mates With! I've Got A Best Lad Mate Who Is Also My Ex But We Get On So Good.. And They Say I Still Have Feelings For Him Just Because We're Close !

It Doesn't Seem Like A Big Problem.. And I Know I Posted A Problem Yesterday.. But Everything Seems To Be Going Wrong.. I Would Be Ok If I Did Fancy The Younger Mate.. But I Don't.. And Even If I Tell My Mates I Don't Like Him.. They Just Say Whatever, Roll Their Eyes Or Just Look At Me Weirdly.. And I Feel Like I Cannot Be Friends With Him Now Thanks To Them.. =(
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Postby miaow » Thu Apr 24, 2008 12:04 pm

ha - totally agree with above. In the grand scheme of things this is something or nothing. I really really would not worry about it, put things into perspective and forget it. I suspect its not so much a problem as an annoyance - can imagine them winding you up is annoying as hell. Rise above it!!!

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Postby Bel Bel » Thu Apr 24, 2008 12:47 pm

i always find instead of argueing just agree and people get bored quicker.

I would say next time "yeah I do love him"

The go over the top and bore them " it's his eyes they are so delicious, those legs, the bum etc" but really exaggerate everything and bore them to death so they don't want to set you off again
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Postby HappyGoLucky » Fri Apr 25, 2008 11:10 am

YES, do what Bel Bel says! Just keep on agreeing. Anyway, why exactly should you care? It's not like it's true. This has happened to me before and I just ignored the untrue comments completely. In time, they will get bored about it and hopefully, see the sense to move on.
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