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I need advice

PostPosted: Thu Mar 26, 2009 12:15 pm
by dog_22
hey every1....

i could really use some help....

in the past year i got realy close to this guy and we bacame best friends... i startd to fall for him but he had a girlfriend... #-o
anyway back in november his gran died and we became realy close durin that period because i helpd him alot.. on his birthday at the end of november we slept together... we were both really drunk and he says he cant remeber most of it...but i remember everytin... he told me he liked me but regreted it cos he had a girlfriend and he loved her and we made a mistake.

since then i hav been in trouble wit a few girls from another town who had it in for me... and i ended up in hospital a few times... i didnt want any of my friends involved but he got pulled into it and it has caused alot of trouble for the 2 of us but he helped me alot.
then in janurary we were both drunk again and slept together.. yet again he says he cant remember anyting, but i tink he could be lying. since then... he has kind of bin off wit me and i have been very upset, because of this we have started fighting alot...i have never in my life faught wit 1 person so much.... everytime i talk to him we end up fighting. last week alot of things went wrong and a fight got way out of hand. i said alot of thing that i didn mean. we are bak friends since then but he wont reply to my texts at all...and i found out this morning that his girlfriend deleted me of her bebo and facebook.

im really afraid dat because of all the fighting my friend is now sick of me and thinks im an ejit and doesnt want anyting to do wit me...
what can i say to him to make him understand dat im not trouble nd dont wna be fightin and i want tings bak the way they were wen we wer best friends i said dat to him before but he never says how he feels so i dno wat to think.

please help im sooooo confused :cry: :cry:

Re: I need advice

PostPosted: Thu Mar 26, 2009 12:18 pm
by rufio89
I think you should stay away from him. I know you're close, and it's sad to lose a friend, but he's not a good guy. He's messing you about, he's messing his girlfriend about, and it sounds like he's using "cant remember" as a convenient excuse not to have to deal with things.

I know it will be really hard, but this guy is bad news, and you want rid of him...

Re: I need advice

PostPosted: Thu Mar 26, 2009 12:26 pm
by dog_22
tank you...

i have been thinking the same,
it is going to be really hard but it the best thing to do


Re: I need advice

PostPosted: Thu Mar 26, 2009 12:28 pm
by rufio89
yeah, it's REALLY hard to make a break from someone like that, but you deserve better than this, you dont want to be someones "bit on the side", do you?

good luck!