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What do i tell her

PostPosted: Mon Sep 07, 2009 11:53 pm
by saramidnite
Hi. I not sure how to explain this. I am good friends with a girl i use to go school with. We now both in our mid 20s. She has a lovely bf. But she told me recently that went they are phyiscal more then hug and kissing. She thinks of women. Apprantly it happens for serval years despite who she is with. She never fancy women thou. Or met a women she fancied. She asked is it normal to fancy only men yet think about women when she never even fancied one. Im not totaly sure what to say to this. I said i still care for her as mate and be there for her. She confused at the moment. Do you think she may be gay and not realised it. If so wouldnt she have by now fancied women she met before instead of men. I m not sure what to say. She an amazing person and i what her to be happy. But she realy confused by this

Re: What do i tell her

PostPosted: Tue Sep 08, 2009 8:22 am
by dipsydoodlenoodle
Maybe thinking of women is a bit of a turn on for her but in reality she is attracted to men?

Re: What do i tell her

PostPosted: Tue Sep 08, 2009 12:11 pm
by Bel Bel
I'd tell her not to worry about it and agree with dipsy

Re: What do i tell her

PostPosted: Tue Sep 08, 2009 7:37 pm
by saramidnite
Thank you for the advice. I told her it dont matter. If it makes her happy. She still my mate. She said she feel guilty for thinking like that. She never fancied a women she met before. She worried because she loves her bf and feels she betraying him. I told her she a lovely person n she got nothing to worry about.