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She h8s me coz he fancies me ... whaddy I do?

PostPosted: Thu Aug 14, 2003 3:34 pm
by evilmage
Theres this guy called chris. my best m8 fancies him & so did I 4 a bit. Not nemor tho!
But he fancies me, so now shes being real mean 2 me saying that she h8s me & stuff. She told him that I slit my wrist & stuf which is a complete lie!
I thought that it wud get sortd out b4 skool started, but now Im not 2 sure. It wud reeli b rubbish if it carried on thru skool but I dont no wot 2 do!
I neva sed that I was going out with him, or even intented 2 go out wit him, & he didnt say that 2 her either. Shes jus being mean and its really gettin me down.
I dnt think that I shud have 2 say sorry or call her up or nething, I tried txting her asking if she was still annoyed & she jus sed leave me alone & stuff.l
:( Please help!

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PostPosted: Fri Aug 15, 2003 12:20 pm
by Differcult
Maybe your friend is hurting inside because you have got the boy she fancys try talking to her. Explain that it's not your fault Chris has feelings for you. If this dosen't work write her a letter explaining what your feeling inside. Then just leave her wait untill she rings txts or just says "Hi" to you. She will come around, as for Chris just tell him that you don't cut yourself and any other things that your mate has said to him. Friendships more improtant then some guy. Hope this helps Differcult XxX

PostPosted: Fri Aug 15, 2003 3:22 pm
by HannahL
Hiya. I agree with you. you've done nothing wrong and have nothing to apologise for. she, on the other hand, has behaved really badly by telling lies about you. Its ok for her to feel upset and angry - I probably would in her position - but the upset and anger shouldn't be directed at you - its the situation that sucks not anything you've done. be firm in your belief in that. hopefully she'll come round and if she doesn't then she wasn't a good friend in the first place - true friends don't persecute each other.

I hope things are ok in school for you!! xx