Kissing my ex: will this ruin our friendship?

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Kissing my ex: will this ruin our friendship?

Postby madcow » Sat Feb 05, 2005 12:12 am

bit of a what do i do...
my best friend(ex boyfriend for almost a year) and me keep ending up in these romantic sought of situations and always end up getting off. Its fine with me, we are both single. Hes quite a groovy kisser, so is it ok for me to be doing this? Weve been doing stuff like this since we broke up and he doesnt fancy me and i dont fancy him. Its just quite kinda nice, i feel really comfortable when im with him, safe. But will the affect our friendship in the longrun? Does anyone else have this with there best friends? My best friend is called Ollie not Bob.

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Postby Enigma » Sat Feb 05, 2005 12:23 am

madcow, please can you advise us of a better topic title to replace "Bob".
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Postby helenisagoddess » Sat Feb 05, 2005 7:36 pm

I think its fine. Its not like you're sleeping together. Kissing is fun and if no one's being hurt then why not!?
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Postby matchbox 20 » Sat Feb 05, 2005 8:20 pm

but...this could lead to problems, one of you may develop feelings, and you could be hurt and your friendshipe won't quite be the same
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Postby Buffy » Sat Feb 05, 2005 9:43 pm

its okay for the minute but please be careful!
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Postby Moose » Sun Feb 06, 2005 3:07 pm

I think this sort of thing is ok if both parties are cool with exactly what is going on, and neither one has strong feelings for the other one. It's when one person is still in love with the other one that problems start.

As long as you're both ok with it and you both know where you stand, you should be fine.

What would happen if one of you met someone else though?
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Postby lilessexgal » Sun Feb 06, 2005 6:15 pm

are you two definately sure you dont still like each other and not just hiding your feelings deep down?
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Postby Buffy » Sun Feb 06, 2005 6:21 pm

lilessexgal wrote:are you two definately sure you dont still like each other and not just hiding your feelings deep down?


thats a point
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Postby dizzy_days » Wed Feb 09, 2005 1:21 pm

Ok i may sound like im trying to be really old!! but........ you are only 14 and kissing well 'snogging' is fun. you are in your prime learning time around the age of 14 so dont worryabout it!! lots of my friends now i kissed when i was young at partys and stuff and we are still good friends!!

bet the same this is going thu his head!! Why not try and talk to him about it!!


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Postby SugarRainbows » Wed Feb 09, 2005 5:11 pm

Its great if its not hurting anyone, just watch it incase it turns into something more for one of you :-?
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Postby BlueRayman » Thu Feb 10, 2005 2:51 pm

Yeha I agree with everybody else. So long as you make sure neither of you start feeling for the other then you'll be fine. But if you start getting feeling or start seeing somebody else new boyfriend or what ever you tell him RIGHT AWAY otherwise I can see that been a bit of a problem.

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Postby Guest » Wed Feb 16, 2005 12:07 am

Your 14.. that's cute.. don't worry honey... you're still a little girl!!

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Postby Laurajane » Wed Feb 16, 2005 12:14 pm

yep totally agree... have fun, but nice safe fun lol
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