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Mate Trouble HELP

PostPosted: Tue Mar 25, 2003 6:57 pm
by justin_luver
at skool at the moment i ave a lot of trouble wiv friends, 1 person is sayin that i am takin her mate off her, but me an "her mate" are close as well an this is not what i am doing. but she wants to fight me. also my so called best friend seems 2 have a problem with another close friend of mine an she has been saying that she prefers another one of HER friend 2 me and i dont no how 2 sort it all out, i dont want no trouble :o

PostPosted: Tue Mar 25, 2003 8:09 pm
by X_Smiler_X
Hey
Bit of a difficult situation there, why can't everyone get along huh!?
I think you should sit down with this group of people and explain to them that nobodys taking anyone off of anyone, and that fighting is not gonna solve the situation at all, it's just gonna make things twice as worse.
Explain to your "close friend" how your feeling, and see where it goes from there.
Good luck!

PostPosted: Wed Mar 26, 2003 11:01 am
by danielle
i had the same problem. my best friend from primary school moved into my secondary school in year 8 and became best friends with someone else. me and my old best friend were still good friends but then me and my new friends started to hang around with her and her new best friend after a while i was accused of trying to steal my old best friend back but i wasnt we just had lots to talk about and remembered things that no-one else did.we all fell out and me and my old best friend became best friends again. we still dont talk to any of our old mates but the funny thing is we dont even talk to each other now

what im trying to say is 1 friend is better than none.
and dont get in any fights with them cus the only thing that will happen is your will get in troulbe it wont solve anything .

i hope you can make sence of what i said and find a little help in it all.

PostPosted: Wed Mar 26, 2003 8:25 pm
by justin_luver
thanx 2 both of ya, 4 ur advise it did help me, i talked 2 my mates seperratly bout it an now the gurl who wanted 2 fight me has apologised an all i gotta sort now is that my "best mate" says that she likes her ova mate more, she denyed it wen i asked her an sed she is sick of havin a circle where she says summat 2 me, i tell my close mate an she tells my "best mate" shes been realy moody recently an i dunno what to sort wiv that