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The black sheep of the family

PostPosted: Fri Nov 02, 2007 11:04 am
by millwallbird
:( hi all just need a rant about my so called family!!! I have 4 brothers and a sister and i dont get on with any of them i very rarely c them! I realli dont like my sister she has the same attitude as my step dad who died 2 yrs ago and i cant stand her she takes the p outta me, I am always there 4 her when she needs me but i nvr get any thanks for it and i never get the same thing back from her in fact she throws it rite bak in my face she treats me like dirt!!!! none of my family have anything to do with my daughter unless they feel like it and its driving me up the wall now because they all get on with eachother and i feel like i have always helped every single one of them out and now i have been phased out and am not part of the family anymore which makes me feel so lonely :( i have just stopped talkin to them all now because no matter how hard i try with them they put me down at every opportunity! I have tried in the past talkin to them but all they do is scream and shout at me :evil: any advice is gr8ly appreciated thanx xxxxxxxxxxx

PostPosted: Fri Nov 02, 2007 11:32 am
by Bel Bel
If they are making you feel so bad and not consisently being in your daughters life I'd say you are better off without them
You can't pick your family but you can pick your friends as I've said before to someone
So surround yourself with good friends and people who give back when you need some support
My family always help out the others more so I know here your coming from. It just makes me more independent and want to prove I don't need them becasue I can do it on my own with the help of my close and good friends

sausage families!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

PostPosted: Fri Nov 02, 2007 11:48 am
by millwallbird
hey there thx for the advice it does make me more independent but it hurts when ya know that they are havin family get 2gethers and everyone is there but me :( have moved to a new area so dont realli have many friends and i think that is makin the situation harder because i have no body to have a good moan to lol me boyfriend thinks i sd just cut them off but although i dont like them very much it does not mean i dont love them and i think bout all the good times we all used to have together before life got too complicated x

PostPosted: Fri Nov 02, 2007 12:01 pm
by HappyGoLucky
It takes time to settle down in a new area so I'm sure you'll have new friends there soon! You can also try joining a club or something.

PostPosted: Fri Nov 02, 2007 2:33 pm
by millwallbird
yea i am tryin to make new friends x startin a new job and have started college so will c how that goes ta 4 all ya advice xxxxxxx

PostPosted: Fri Nov 02, 2007 3:24 pm
by Bel Bel
oh that's good two new places to find new friends
Good Luck

PostPosted: Fri Nov 02, 2007 11:11 pm
by brfc
yep i agree you cant choose family. if they cant be bothered with you its there loss. i personally wouldnt bother trying to be there for them if there not there for you. i think going to college and doing a job is a great way too meet new people. hope it all works out well for you millwall take care brfc x

PostPosted: Fri Jan 04, 2008 7:49 pm
by teardrop
i knowhow you feel too. i know you are feeling hurt or angry . hold your head up and tell yourself you are better than that.let them play their games as they will need you before you need them .and then say up yours. keep smiling.its a shame we cant change family like friends eh!!!! xx