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Sister + Wedding = NIGHTMARE!!!

PostPosted: Fri Mar 07, 2008 1:05 pm
by LemonJuice87
My Sister is getting married in the summer 2010. She's been engaged for a while.

She hasnt planned anything!!! I've managed to get her to decide on wether she wanted a church do or go to the registry office. They have decided on a church, but they wont get thier skates on to book it!

Me and my boyfriend seem to be the only one's concerned. It's like if my sister was any more laid back she would fall over!

Is there any way i can kick them up the bum and tell them to get thier skates on, without been the pushy bridesmaid?

PostPosted: Fri Mar 07, 2008 8:46 pm
by all_apologies
I think you shouldn't concern yourself with it; it's their wedding and in the end they'll arrange it at their own pace. Maybe you could remind her that weddings do need to be booked a good while in advance if they're definitely planning for that date. Have they just said they're getting married in summer of 2010 without arranging anything at all? Could it be that they're just giving themselves a rough date that they'd hope to arrange the wedding by, but nothing definite?

PostPosted: Mon Mar 10, 2008 12:46 pm
by Bel Bel
I agree with all_apologies on this one

PostPosted: Tue Mar 11, 2008 1:41 pm
by LemonJuice87
Yeah they have a date they really want. It's the date they first started going out. 9th August.

I just dont want them to not be able to get that day. Thats all i'm worried about i guess.

Then she can leave everything till the last minute if she wants lol.

PostPosted: Tue Mar 11, 2008 4:05 pm
by Yellowcoaching
so mention it's reserving their dream date that concerns you...ONCE

Then leave it or you kinda are the pushy bridesmaid :wink:

PostPosted: Tue Mar 11, 2008 4:45 pm
by LemonJuice87
I'll mention it on the weekend then take a step back.

I'll keep quiet till Xmas i think. Then see how it goes. Lol