by Ticktock » Tue Jun 28, 2011 11:40 pm
So she has waited till he has got engaged, which unless this was a whirlwind romance, would have taken a little while.
I would say this girl was a either a hopeless romantic who is losing the chance to be with the man of her dreams, or someone who is a bit of a drama queen and emotionally manipulative to boot. She has certainly watched too many trashy US romance movies!
In either case I suggest your brother says that she should do what she wants, he isn't responsible for her, and any other reaction could be portrayed by her as undermining the fiancee...
I wouldn't normally recommend using a txt, but that or making sure he has company when he does this would be recommended. A woman scorned and all that she just may decide to play dirty and set him up, in his best interests of course!
Sorry if your brother won't want to hear that, but you can't maintain a friendship with someone who is blackmailing you like that.