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PostPosted: Mon Jan 26, 2004 4:48 pm
by Fidel
Mr L. - I said that true love is never wrong.

Edited by smile on 26/01/2004

PostPosted: Wed Jan 28, 2004 8:13 pm
by Mr.L
Fidel. This is wrong.

Sorry Worried4Me but yer take peoples advice and find a girl

PostPosted: Thu Jan 29, 2004 1:51 pm
by worstfriend
Sorry Fidel,
I agree with Mr L. on this one.

Go and read Middlesex (by the guy who wrote the virgin suicides), it'll clear a whole lot of stuff up for you.


PostPosted: Thu Jan 29, 2004 5:09 pm
by Fidel
What about Oedipus.............he didn't have his love blinded by family relationships but I'm not saying it's right and I sure worried4me knows that. I'm just saying that it isn't necesarily wrong but he should not persue it

PostPosted: Thu Jan 29, 2004 6:23 pm
by daveshow
have any of you seen deliverence thats what will happen its illegal because its wrong think how the child will be mocked even if it isnt born deformed

p.s what are the birth defects that can happen i have heard downs syndrome is one

PostPosted: Fri Jan 30, 2004 11:25 am
by worstfriend
Fidel, have you even read Oedipus?

When Oedipus is told by the Oracle that he will kill his father and marry his mother he is so horrified at the thought, he goes in the OPPOSITE direction to where he thinks they live so that he can avoid this fate.

When he finally finds out that he HAS killed his father and realises his children were borne by his mother, she hangs herself and he pokes both his eyes out with her cloak pins! You make it sound like everyone was happy about it! It's a play about the cruelty and injustice of the Fates, not how much of a good idea incest is. Incest is used to show just how horrific it can all get!

If you need any further indication of what people thought of Oedipus - modern civilisation has named what is considered a severe psychological problem after him - Oedipus complex.


PostPosted: Fri Jan 30, 2004 12:19 pm
by smile
Please stick to the problem at hand. If you want to talk about plays then please do so in the Chit Chat forum, not in someone's problem thread.

Thank you.

PostPosted: Wed Nov 23, 2005 8:50 am
by ramedud

It's a beautiful thing you're in love with your sister, don't feel strange or awkward. It's ok to fall in love with her, as long as it's consensual. From what I read you're 25 and she's 27 (or the other way around), either way you're legally adults. But there's a flipside to the coin, do you know if she has feelings for you? Try starting with the small things, like keeping in touch with her and have your typical conversations. When you feel it's the right time, gently tell her so she won't be so shocked, and reassure her you're not trying to hurt her or harm your relationship. Do keep in mind there's a chance it won't work out. If it happens, then it was meant to be, but if it doesn't it was also meant to be. You can call it destiny, I guess. At this point you might want to socialize with girls a lot more to get some experience. After all experience will give you invaluable relationship skills. Try a local college or club, it works good for me. I see you live in Ireland, but I'm not sure what the laws say about sibling marriage. If you're worried about having children with genetic mutations, you can consult a genetic counselor in your area. I'm sure there's a good one that specializes at a university in Corcaigh or Baile Atha Cliath (Dublin), shouldn't cost too much either.

Hope this helps.

the ramedud

PostPosted: Sat Nov 26, 2005 1:27 pm
by JennaXXX
Am I mssing the point here? I dont want to sound out of order but this is NOT NATURAL!
He shouldnt be encouraged to act on his feelings towards his sister. It is illegal.
He needs to make a new life for himself, get out there and meet new girls instead of fantasizing about something that could never happen.

PostPosted: Sat Nov 26, 2005 5:22 pm
by peecee
Hey, guys, don't worry any more; this thread is nearly two years old - so let's hope it all ended ok...


PostPosted: Sat Nov 26, 2005 10:24 pm
by snowy
ramedud, that's some of the worst advice Ive ever read on these forums.

Worried4me, I hope you went to counselling.

PostPosted: Sat Nov 26, 2005 10:37 pm
by peecee
We probably won't ever find out; worried4me hasn't posted since 31st January, 2004.

PostPosted: Sun Nov 27, 2005 10:03 pm
by ramedud
peecee wrote:We probably won't ever find out; worried4me hasn't posted since 31st January, 2004.

Yeah seriuosly