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My sister's turned into a monster!

PostPosted: Sat Jan 22, 2005 9:45 pm
by DaMaGeD
I dunno wot 2 do about my sister! shes 17 and has been kinda moody and strange for years but we just got used 2 it but now shes even worse. My hairdryer broke and i went into her room this morning when she was gettin ready i didnt knock cos she always has her music on so loud she never hears, so i just went in and she was sniffing a bodyspray! Then she went MAD and shoved me out of her room and slammed the door. Ive seen cuts on her arms and she always wears long sleeves she even did in the summer! But thats not even half of it, we used to be really close but now she harldy speaks to me, my parents dont seem to notice cos theyre too busy...and, ok i know this sounds really mean but i was looking in her wardrobe a while ago and there was about 5 empty bottles of vodka and other alcohol in there. Shes gets really mad at me and hits me, she smashes things all the time and i hate that shes always so angry when i havnt even done anything! she hardly goes out and when she does she comes back off her head on drugs or something and starts yelling at anyone whos around, and when shes not out she sleeps untill about 4pm!!! And theres always this weird look in her eyes like shes not really there shes always high on something! Am i over-reacting?

PostPosted: Sun Jan 23, 2005 4:54 pm
by SugarRainbows
no it defiantly does not seem like your overreacting, what do your parents think about this have you told them? doesnt sound like speaking to her will help much but sounds like has a few insecurities which are making her feel as if she has to do these things.

PostPosted: Sun Jan 23, 2005 6:55 pm
by lilessexgal
has she ever tried going to a counciller or something? shes obviously having problems at the moment! couldnt you tell you parents if there tooo busy to notice!? they might agree with you!

by the way your not over reacting!

Thanks!

PostPosted: Sun Jan 23, 2005 10:10 pm
by DaMaGeD
Thanks 4 replyin! Ive mentioned some stuff 2 my parents b4 and they just think shes being a teenager and they look at me funny cos they probably think im just trying to cause trouble or that im jealous or something. They get a bit mad sometimes cos she usually refuses to eat and mom hates wasting food. I dunno wot else 2 say its just really horrible at the moment.

PostPosted: Mon Jan 24, 2005 5:46 pm
by SugarRainbows
thats ok hun :) have you tried having a serious sit down talk with them? do you know any of her mates you could ask see if they know anything?

hope things start to get better :)

i hope this helps...

PostPosted: Mon Feb 14, 2005 1:01 am
by just_me
are you younger or older than her?

if you are younger then it is possible that your parents know whats going on but they are trying to protect you. my parents are always keeping things from my brother about me and he is 18 months younger than me.

I know this is not the same situation as you are in, but i had a miscarriage about a year ago, and i didnt know i was pregnant until it happened, my mum and dad were with me through it but my brother didnt know about it until about 6 months later

I dont know if this will help you but you dont need to talk to your mum and dad about her, just support her as best you can. it doesnt matter whether your parents know or not but dont tell them cos you will ruin any kind of relationship with her. just keep in mind that your parents may be trying to keep it from you so i think its best left alone, just be there for your sister and let her know you love her