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Postby apple » Wed Feb 07, 2007 1:32 am

okay so as ive already rote in b4, there is this guy who is alot lot older then me!! i mean like 25 years gap at least, and we get on really well and im not sure if i am attracted to him. i think about him alot but im not sure if i am attracted to him or not! i feel the only way i can find out is to make a move and kiss the guy..but then if i decide i dont, it isnt fair to him (i think he may like me back a bit but feels he has no chance coz im younger etc).. and it may complicate our friendship and ruin it.. plus if anyone found out like my parents or friends etc i would be really embarassed because he is reallyy old and also not my usual type!!... please help! what should i do??
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Postby morris mouse » Wed Feb 07, 2007 3:01 am

apple wrote:I feel the only way i can find out is to make a move and kiss the guy..... it may complicate our friendship and ruin it


Hi there,"Apple"

What a complicated situation you find yourself in!!

You mention,in your post,that there's this guy whom you think
about a lot...... but you're not sure if you are attracted to him or not!!

Also,he's at least 25 years older than you. :(

The only way,as you mention in your post,that you feel that you would
be attracted to him or not......is to make a move and kiss him :o

This would NOT be a good idea,as you know,this would only
cause you to complicate the friendship and ruin it. :( :(

It would be much better if you could avoid him,for a few days (this
would give you time to think about the situation)

If,after this,you still feel the same way,then talk to him!! :)
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Postby apple » Sat Feb 17, 2007 12:01 am

hey thanks for the reply, okay so ive avoided him for a few days and im still feeling the same about it! what you think i should say to him?! i dont wanna say somethin and then regret saying it coz im not sure if i mean it! aghhh lol x
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Postby morris mouse » Sat Feb 17, 2007 12:23 am

apple wrote:I dont wanna say somethin and then regret saying it coz im not sure if i mean it!


"apple"

You've avoided him,for a few days,and that's a good thing.
(well done!!)

BUT...........

You still feel attracted to him :o

You're asking,what will you say to him??

To be honest,the best thing to do,would be to speak from
your heart

Just be as honest as you can be,to him,and take it from there :)

**All the very best with it.**
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Postby peecee » Sun Apr 15, 2007 10:06 pm

apple wrote:okay so i wrote in a while back saying theres a guy alot lot older then me, at least 20 years who i wasnt sure if i was attracted to or not because he is not my usual type at all ! well finally a few weeks ago we kissed, and i dont know how i feel now! i just think its wrong because hes like the same age as my parents and should i look at it as pervy? i mean i am 20 years old so i dont think hes being pervy.. ahh well confused! can anyone offer any advice?? thanks
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