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Holiday Romance

PostPosted: Sat Aug 08, 2015 2:34 pm
by Brightwey
I got back from my holiday to Tenerife 8 weeks ago and while I was over there I met this waiter. It was quite casual and he'd come up to my room after lunch everyday. At the end of the holiday we exchanged numbers and I wasn't really expecting much, maybe a few messages at the start but then I thought it would all be a distant memory. But it wasn't, instead we'd talk most days and he regularly asks me to go back over and see him. However I'm not sure if I should, it was fun and I liked him but I don't know about staying in his apartment when I don't really know him. I was only on holiday for a week and messaging someone doesn't feel the same as getting to know him. I suggested for him to come to England to see me and he was wiling had it not been for the fact that he is actually Moroccan and there is the hassle of getting visas and stuff where as I can fly over to Tenerife no problem. I've even tried to persuade friends to go there on holiday with me but it's not easy with work and money. So I need some advice, should I bite the bullet and go over there or just leave it as a memory?

Re: Holiday Romance

PostPosted: Tue Aug 11, 2015 3:53 pm
by Bel Bel
It all sounds a bit fishy to me, I'd would leave it
It is very very rare for these situations to work
He is a waiter, already in a foreign country. He got there ok but can't or won't get to the UK
If he cared he would not be bothered by the hassle or the cost
On a waiters wage I am not sure he could afford it anyway
What about long term, he can't come here and stay unless you marry him :o
Walk away now before you get hurt more

Re: Holiday Romance

PostPosted: Tue Aug 11, 2015 5:02 pm
by Brightwey
Yeah I think I know you are right, guess I wanted to keep a bit of my holiday alive because I had such a good holiday regardless of what happened with him.

Re: Holiday Romance

PostPosted: Tue Aug 11, 2015 7:29 pm
by pinkroses
I would just put it down to a holiday romance and that you had some fun whilst you were there.

Re: Holiday Romance

PostPosted: Mon Oct 05, 2015 4:00 pm
by thewildchild
Leave it as a holiday romance I would say.