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Single AGAIN

PostPosted: Sun Nov 22, 2015 4:33 pm
by drummingman3
I'm single again, both women I've lived with I lived with them between 8 and 10yrs, both run off with another man...when am I going to actually find someone that wont run off..what am I doing wrong??

Where indeed will I find this person, I'm running out of ideas...online dating doesnt have many women in my area.

Re: Single AGAIN

PostPosted: Tue Nov 24, 2015 12:53 pm
by snail
Without more information it's impossible to know what went wrong in your relationships but lots of relationships don't last, it's not just you.

You might have to travel further afield if there are not many women in your area. Also, keep looking and trying, as the membership of dating sites changes all the time.

Re: Single AGAIN

PostPosted: Wed Nov 25, 2015 9:25 pm
by David020549
You say "lived with" so can I assume that means not married. My guess is that they thought you were a good prospect for a permanent relationship ( marriage ), as no offer was forthcoming after 8 yrs plus, which is quite a long time they decided to try elsewhere. At the end of the day women want security and certainty either from a committed partner or from their own independence.
Of course if they both left for a common reason the ball is in your court to change your ways

Re: Single AGAIN

PostPosted: Thu Nov 26, 2015 5:06 pm
by Bel Bel
It's most likely they, for one reason or another, had just had enough, fell out of love or got fed up with a behaviour you weren't addressing and instead of dealing with the problem they ran off with other people
Not everyone will do this but often people try to find a new partner before leaving the old one as they can't stand to be alone
Have you asked what went wrong?