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Postby Fruityfruit » Sat Dec 31, 2005 2:45 pm

Howdy, I was talking to my friends and we just wanted people opinions, in particular males. I know that it all depends on what the situation is but do men prefer/more attracted to virgins or girls with experience in the sex department?
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Postby bkukat » Sat Dec 31, 2005 4:52 pm

To me, it doesnt matter ... its the person that counts
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Postby lilessexgal » Tue Jan 03, 2006 1:12 am

im not a man of course lol but thought i would give my opnion that i dont think it should matter weather the girl is a virgin or not its the person that matters.

if i started really like a boy and i was a virgin and i found out the boy wanted someone with experience i would get really annoyed.....same with if i liked a boy and had experience and found out the guy wanted someone who was a virgin.

it shouldnt matter.
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Postby amanda11 » Tue Jan 03, 2006 3:27 am

it totally depends on the guy. some guys find it a turn on to be with girls who have loads of confidence and who have had loads of sex (usually younger guys)! and then when they get older a lot of men then want to bed a virgin!!!! i think it really depends on the individual
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Postby jimmy » Tue Jan 03, 2006 6:25 pm

from my point of view, i like the sound of virgins and inncercence. Turns me on alot.

err.. that is all ¬_¬
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Postby Rob01 » Tue Jan 03, 2006 6:29 pm

It is irrelevant to me.

If I fall in love with a virgin, then no worries. If I fall in love with someone sexually experienced, then no worries.

The important point is that I am in love with her. :D
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Postby Liquidius » Tue Jan 03, 2006 11:36 pm

Well although I'm female - and am not really into women....

I dont think it should matter. Doesnt mean it doesnt to everyone though.

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Postby chosenfew » Tue Jan 03, 2006 11:39 pm

when ever i meet men who i like and i think may like me...when they find out i am a virgin they dont want anything to do with me but then other girls who are virgins find men who are more than happy to be with them. maybe i am doing something else wrong??
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Postby luvva » Wed Jan 04, 2006 12:57 am

I'm female, and like Liquidius I don't think it should matter, but everyone is different.

When I've spoken to people though, it's never because they think that either being a virgin, or having some experience is bad, their opinion was also based on their sexual history and views on sex in general.
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Postby SugarRainbows » Wed Jan 04, 2006 10:41 am

I agree with all the females here lol!

It shouldnt matter, because sex is an act of love, so if you love the person it shouldnt matter. If they have loved someone else then it shouldnt matter because now they are with you and love you, which is the only important thing.
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Postby Wordman » Wed Jan 04, 2006 11:05 am

I don't really care if a girl is a virgin or not.
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Postby Moose » Wed Jan 04, 2006 12:20 pm

As others have said, I would be really put off a bloke who actually had a preference. You can kind of understand it if it's a one night stand, and someone wants to live out a bit of a fantasy (e.g. getting off with an innocent virgin, or learning from someone with experience), but for a long term relationship, it shouldn't really come into it, IMO.
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Postby Honey_Bunny » Fri Jan 13, 2006 6:29 pm

I am a female by the way and go 4 guys but i still want to comment.

This is what i think.......

It does depend on the person but......

Advantages of a virgin:
they are sweet and inocent to guys
Disadvantage of a virgin:
some guys might not like this as they may only want a 1 night stand so they would not like to take the girls viginity as the girl could get up set.
they also might be nervious/scared and they don't really know what to do.

Advantage of a non-virgin:
they have more experience and know what to do and how to please a guy.
Disadvantage of a non-virgin:
guys might think that they are sl*gs and just use them.
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Virgins or girls with experience?

Postby Bulldog1983 » Fri Jan 20, 2006 2:50 pm

Well, personally from a guy's perspective, I don't mind either. I've slept with girls that have little experience, and gals that have loads. I find either just as inviting as the other. A girl that has more experience than me, is a turn on in one way because i feel i can learn from them, where as a girl with little or no experience is also a turn on, because you can guide them, and teach them based on your own experiences. As a lot of the other people have said, it shouldnt matter as long as you love the person that your with. Personally I've never had a problem with women based on there sexual experience.
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Postby Bubble » Sat Jan 21, 2006 3:45 pm

It shouldn't really matter. :roll:
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