I think I am in love with my best friend

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I think I am in love with my best friend

Postby pegasys » Mon Sep 22, 2003 10:40 pm

HI,

I am need some advice on what to do.

We have been friends for about 4 years and we get on really well but she recently spilt up with her boyfriend of 3 years and I have come to the realisation I maybe in love with her, checking the major signs I am pretty sure I am. I have a funny feeling she doesn't feel the same way in fact I think she thinks of me as a brother.

The question I have is should I tell her and if I should how should I go about telling her without getting her upset

Thanks for the advice in advice
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Postby sovs » Wed Sep 24, 2003 1:40 am

I wouldnt say anything at the moment as she has just broken up with her long term boyfriend.
If she thinks of you like a brother it is unlikely she would want it to go further.
Think it over carefully and when the times right discuss it with her.
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Postby pegasys » Wed Sep 24, 2003 10:11 am

Thanks for the advice I am thinking about it heavily and realised that now isn't the time
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Postby madbird » Sat Sep 27, 2003 3:41 pm

I've felt like that about my friend for a while - i did manage to tell him after 3 years and he said he already knew, it was pretty obvious! He only thinks of me as a sister, but we're still good friends.
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