Ok here goes and sorry if it gets long!
I have two sisters who are both older than me. i live with my older sister and my other sister lives miles away. I'll call mmy older sister - HELEN and my other sister - EMMA
emma found her partner dead last year he'd commited suicide. helenwas there for her and she lived with us for a few month to sort herself out on new years eve emma got very drunk in our home and made a fool out of herself. Although i know she was drunk and it's probably her way of dealing with things i explained my feelings to what she had done and she apologised saying she didn't mean too. helen however just stopped speaking to her and going from close sisters who used to text each other everyday they didn't speak for months. It got to a point where if we were all at my parents there would be a massive feeling of tension.
A few months ago helen lost her baby at 8 months. She felt emma wasn't there for her but to be honest she told everyone she just wanted to forget it all and move on with her life and i knew that emma hadn;t come to terms with her partner last year she's on anti depressents and felt she couldn't drive downto visit helen so was trying to get down another way to be fair on emma though she tried ringing helen and visited her a couple of days after it had all happend. I thought maybe it would bring them closer as they'd both lost someone but it didn't it made it worse.
In November we all went away for my birthday and I invited both helen and emma telling them it was time to sort things out and if they didn;t it would ruin my holiday and i believd they did till we got back to england and helen's friend told me every night she had slagged emma off in the hotel room as they were in a different room to me and emma. I found this really selfish of helen as emma had tried to sort things out. Ever since then Emma texts me atleast every couple of days or i text her and helen says she get fed up of her texting me all the time. I find this really pathetic and i am really starting to give up on helen and wanting to move out as she has a massive drink, attitude and other problems. She is also very selfish and i hate that fact about her.
I just want helen to sort out her issues with emma and also to sort herself out! i feel like i'm the older sister when there is 10 years between us. my dad lost all his family because of a petty argument and i dont want him to lose his daughters too. i'll always be there but at times i feel they just need to grow up especially helen.