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Can't decide where to study

Post by lisaloo07 » Sat Mar 28, 2009 6:23 pm

hello im Lisa
i have a bit of a dilemma
i am currently studying at collage and will be going to uni next year but i need to decide witch one to go to ..
i live with my mom and next spring she is moving to Spain =[ witch i dont relly want her to..
i could stay here were i live
and i could stay with my boyfriend of 3 year and a couple of months and then just stay were i am and go uni
or i could go and live with my dad 9 hours drive away and study were he lives
so it is quite confusing ...
i really don't want to leave my boyfriend cos i think we will end up spilting up.
but i would love to go stay with my dad for a cuple of years.

somebody please help me ... i keep thinking about it and its geting me down ..
everyone keeps telling me to just do what my heart tells me but when i think of leaveing sam (my boyfriend) i feel like crying ..
but i would love to stay with my dad ...

any opinions welcome thanks :)
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Re: Can't decide where to study

Post by melissa_0h9 » Fri Apr 03, 2009 9:12 pm

Hi Lisa. :]
dont worry about things so much..
you do need to think about your future and it is hard i know.
i hae been in this position too.. and my boyfirend had to understand that i was going to be away a lot of the time.
you can always go hoem and visit him babe
if you really want to stay with your dad do it.. live your life for yourself not for anyone else
if he is a real boyfirnd who loves you liek you love him he wil understand xx

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Re: Can't decide where to study

Post by dipsydoodlenoodle » Mon Apr 06, 2009 10:48 am

This should be tagged onto the end of your other post so that people can get the whole story.

You don't need to leave Sam; you can just try and work out the long distance thing. If it doesn't work out then at least you cans ay you tried.
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