Friend said my boyfriend is controling me?

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Re: Friend said my boyfriend is controling me?

Postby dipsydoodlenoodle » Fri Jul 24, 2009 1:10 pm

Skarlet wrote:Could it be that she wants your relationships to fail to make herself feel better? Obviously not knowing the history, but you make it sound like it isn't good.


Thats what I hinted at earlier.
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Re: Friend said my boyfriend is controling me?

Postby LemonJuice87 » Fri Jul 24, 2009 2:11 pm

dipsydoodlenoodle wrote:
Skarlet wrote:Could it be that she wants your relationships to fail to make herself feel better? Obviously not knowing the history, but you make it sound like it isn't good.


Thats what I hinted at earlier.


Thats what i've always thought. It's not untill someone else says it that it becomes real.

When we were younger she always set me up with her current blokes friends. And the boyfriends i went out and met myself she never liked. Like Mr. LemonJuice, he's older than us and more mature. And he's at that age where he could be ready to want to start a family at any time. I don't think she likes the fact that i've got my daughter and that i'm ready to start a proper family with him. We're settled and happy. I also think she doesnt like that i would rather go out with Mr. LemonJuice or stop in with him that go and get drunk up town and spend money i just don't have anymore.

I think she has some trust issues.
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Re: Friend said my boyfriend is controling me?

Postby RagDoll » Fri Jul 24, 2009 2:18 pm

"I also think she doesnt like that i would rather go out with Mr. LemonJuice or stop in with him that go and get drunk up town and spend money i just don't have anymore" (sorry, can't do the quote thing at work)

- I think that's a common problem when people get girlfriends/boyfriends. I know my boyfriend's friends were narked and couldn't get their heads around the fact he stopped going out as much when we started a relationship (not because I told him to, but because he wanted to spend time with me!). If she's single she's probably just jealous and doesn't want to accept that you have different priorities to her.
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