New Relationships - How much contact should you be in?
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Re: New Relationships - How much contact should you be in?
I know, I know I need to calm down, it's just because this is unusual, he's a bit rubbish at texting, but he has texted me everyday since I started seeing him.
I think he might have lost his phone.
I think he might have lost his phone.
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UPDATE:
He called. All is well. lol.
He called. All is well. lol.
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Omg Dipsy! I could not put up with that at all - how do you get any proper stuff done?! It would drive me crazy.dipsydoodlenoodle wrote:I get about 20-40 texts a day from my boyfriend. I did in the beginning and I do now; althought I do get a bit less now.
If I meet my bf I get about 10 texts about him getting up, waiting for the bus, still waiting for the bus, on the bus, walking to the meeting place etc.
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I would love it lol.
When we and my ex first got togehter he sent me about 60 messages a day lol . I didnt like it when that died out.
When we and my ex first got togehter he sent me about 60 messages a day lol . I didnt like it when that died out.
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You people are HIGH maintenance! 

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You two will BOTH get punished for that 

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Lol! Just don't start texting me 50 times a day - pleease!!!rufio89 wrote:You two will BOTH get punished for that
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Im gonna start texing you 500 times a day! muhahahhahahaaa
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I get loads doneJo wrote:Omg Dipsy! I could not put up with that at all - how do you get any proper stuff done?! It would drive me crazy.

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Loads of texts or calls, especially in the beginning, would drive me insane. When my boyfriend and I first got together we'd speak on the phone nearly every night and would see each other most weekends. Unless we were arranging to go out that night or if something came up for one of us I think the maximum number of texts we'd send each other would be about 5. Mind you, I'm not really from a massive text generation. What do all these texts say? I'm genuinely interested, it is just like "hiya!" or something?
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Some are general, some are specific, but most are just general chat...like saying what you have been up to etc.LME79 wrote:What do all these texts say? I'm genuinely interested, it is just like "hiya!" or something?
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I have to admit that my boyfriend and I have a lot of contact - whilst I'm at work, we email each other on and off all day. That's mostly because I'm so bored at work though! If I'm out with friends or something I might send the odd text, but not loads.
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oh yeah, i probably should have mentioned i only like that many texts if im really bored. If im doing something im enjoying i find it annoying. They have to just "know" haha. High maintenance? Moi?? 
