New Relationships - How much contact should you be in?

[rufio89]

I know, I know I need to calm down, it's just because this is unusual, he's a bit rubbish at texting, but he has texted me everyday since I started seeing him.

I think he might have lost his phone.

[rufio89]

UPDATE:

He called. All is well. lol.

[Jo]

I get about 20-40 texts a day from my boyfriend. I did in the beginning and I do now; althought I do get a bit less now.

If I meet my bf I get about 10 texts about him getting up, waiting for the bus, still waiting for the bus, on the bus, walking to the meeting place etc.

Omg Dipsy! I could not put up with that at all - how do you get any proper stuff done?! It would drive me crazy.

[rufio89]

I would love it lol.

When we and my ex first got togehter he sent me about 60 messages a day lol . I didnt like it when that died out.

[Jo]

You people are HIGH maintenance!

[Bel Bel]

I agrre Jo but glad you said it first

Bel Bel HIDES BEHIND JO FEARING THAT SHE MAY GET PELTED WITH MOULDY TOMATOES

[rufio89]

You two will BOTH get punished for that

[Jo]

You two will BOTH get punished for that

Lol! Just don't start texting me 50 times a day - pleease!!!

[rufio89]

Im gonna start texing you 500 times a day! muhahahhahahaaa

[Bel Bel]

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Bel Bel changes sim card to her new secret number

[dipsydoodlenoodle]

*whispers to Ruth* Bel Bel's new secret number is 0800-BEL-BEL.

Omg Dipsy! I could not put up with that at all - how do you get any proper stuff done?! It would drive me crazy.

I get loads done

[LME79]

Loads of texts or calls, especially in the beginning, would drive me insane. When my boyfriend and I first got together we'd speak on the phone nearly every night and would see each other most weekends. Unless we were arranging to go out that night or if something came up for one of us I think the maximum number of texts we'd send each other would be about 5. Mind you, I'm not really from a massive text generation. What do all these texts say? I'm genuinely interested, it is just like "hiya!" or something?

[dipsydoodlenoodle]

What do all these texts say? I'm genuinely interested, it is just like "hiya!" or something?

Some are general, some are specific, but most are just general chat...like saying what you have been up to etc.

[RagDoll]

I have to admit that my boyfriend and I have a lot of contact - whilst I'm at work, we email each other on and off all day. That's mostly because I'm so bored at work though! If I'm out with friends or something I might send the odd text, but not loads.

[rufio89]

oh yeah, i probably should have mentioned i only like that many texts if im really bored. If im doing something im enjoying i find it annoying. They have to just "know" haha. High maintenance? Moi??