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Re: Rant: RIDICULOUS MAN!

Postby dipsydoodlenoodle » Wed Oct 07, 2009 9:01 am

ok I'm not one to talk about holidays quickly as I went on holiday with my boyfriend after being together for 4 months - however we'd known each other months before and I had agreed to go as "friends" before we got together AND the holiday wasn't just the two of us; it was with other people as well. However from what Ruth has said her ex has only been going out with this girl 4-6 weeks from what I gather...
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Re: Rant: RIDICULOUS MAN!

Postby m_m » Wed Oct 07, 2009 10:17 am

How're you feeling in general Ruth? Hows the job-hunt going? :)

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Re: Rant: RIDICULOUS MAN!

Postby rufio89 » Wed Oct 07, 2009 1:27 pm

Im struggling a bit tbh. I'm trying really, really hard to stay positive, but it's been a difficult few months, and the job stuff is getting on top of me a bit. Today is a better day, Im feeling quite focused, but every so often i get this overwhelming and crippling terror that im not going to find a job. But I've got another 2 weeks, and I'm on garden leave from Tuesday for my final 2 weeks.

I've not spoken to my ex, I almost texted him the other day because one of his friends is pregnant and I wanted to know if she'd had her baby yet, but I decided against it, and got her husbands number from someone else (she has, a baby girl :) )

Im not missing the contact with him in the slightest. I feel like theres a big weight off my mind, and I was thinking about it earlier, and how in love with him I was, but when he said he wanted to marry me, I realised there is no part of me that wants to marry him anymore. Ever. I am so glad to be rid of him, and have finally come to the conclusion that he is not good enough for me.

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Re: Rant: RIDICULOUS MAN!

Postby dipsydoodlenoodle » Wed Oct 07, 2009 1:36 pm

rufio89 wrote:Im not missing the contact with him in the slightest. I feel like theres a big weight off my mind, and I was thinking about it earlier, and how in love with him I was, but when he said he wanted to marry me, I realised there is no part of me that wants to marry him anymore. Ever. I am so glad to be rid of him, and have finally come to the conclusion that he is not good enough for me.


This is good; I'm pleased you have also arrived at the same conclusion as most people on pp.
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Re: Rant: RIDICULOUS MAN!

Postby captainf » Wed Oct 07, 2009 3:49 pm

Pleased to hear you're over your ex. I would say you found out he wasnt the right guy for you which is an important thing to remember when you have a down day.
He is young and still learning, you are also young and still learning. Its possible you both may go a few years before you both find the one, but dont give up. All in good time.
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Re: Rant: RIDICULOUS MAN!

Postby Bel Bel » Thu Oct 08, 2009 12:23 pm

I heard on the radio yesterday there are some good tips on the government website in the " back to work" section
There may something you haven't thought of, I hope it helps

http://backtowork.direct.gov.uk/index.html
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