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Enigmatic (and Nice) Classmate

Postby Thomil » Tue Sep 20, 2011 6:33 pm

Hello everyone!
I'm in a weird situation...
I told to my classmate that I'm gay and that I got out with a boy this summer. He told me it's ok, and he approves me and he hasn't omophobic ideas. But a little bit later he started asking me what's the difference between kissing a boy or a girl, what happens to me when I see gay videos, so he was very curious about my gay life style... I'm thinking he's at least bisexual... He told me also he was dating a girl, but she never got out with him for her problems... What do you think? Should I ask him if he's bi-gay? I thought to ask to him Saturday, during my female friend's birthday party... It's a good idea?
Thanks to all ;)
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Re: Enigmatic (and Nice) Classmate

Postby snail » Tue Sep 20, 2011 7:06 pm

I would not assume from what he said that he is bi - I think he is simply curious about your different lifestyle. Only ask him if you feel sure that the question will not offend him or make things awkward between you.
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Re: Enigmatic (and Nice) Classmate

Postby Thomil » Tue Sep 20, 2011 7:30 pm

I thought the same, I wouldn't make a fool... I'll only try to ask him "Are you completely sure you're straight? It's only a question, nothing else, not a flirt or other"... Could it be ambiguous or offensive?
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Re: Enigmatic (and Nice) Classmate

Postby snail » Tue Sep 20, 2011 10:19 pm

I suppose it depends on how you ask the question. You know your friend best, so you are probably the best judge.
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