by Mrconfused74 » Mon Dec 14, 2015 5:37 pm
That's exactly where I was. I nearly always seemed to make the first contact, even now she will just give a little wave, but makes no attempt to talk. I'm pretty certain that if I was to approach her we could pick up where we left off, but I can't put myself through that. Unlike you I never asked for her number, so never text, but as we would see each other and talk most days, there didn't seem the need, I'd go to hers for coffee, and we even went out one morning, she said her partner knew, yet if they were ever together and saw me, she would not acknowledge me, so it made me wonder.
So even if she says her husband is aware, there's a chance he won't.
Snail is right, she may love the attention and it could well be boosting her ego, and she loves it, so she's getting a lot of what she needs, ie attention, someone that might be flattering her, giving her advice and listen to her, where maybe her husband isn't and you in return are getting nothing from it?
It's strange that you are n a similar place to me, and I'm giving the advice that others gave me but I didn't listen till late on, check out my post if you want and see the advice I was given.