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Post by Fidel » Mon Jan 26, 2004 3:48 pm

Mr L. - I said that true love is never wrong.

Edited by smile on 26/01/2004
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Post by Mr.L » Wed Jan 28, 2004 7:13 pm

Fidel. This is wrong.

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Post by worstfriend » Thu Jan 29, 2004 12:51 pm

Sorry Fidel,
I agree with Mr L. on this one.

Go and read Middlesex (by the guy who wrote the virgin suicides), it'll clear a whole lot of stuff up for you.

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Post by Fidel » Thu Jan 29, 2004 4:09 pm

What about Oedipus.............he didn't have his love blinded by family relationships but I'm not saying it's right and I sure worried4me knows that. I'm just saying that it isn't necesarily wrong but he should not persue it
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Post by daveshow » Thu Jan 29, 2004 5:23 pm

have any of you seen deliverence thats what will happen its illegal because its wrong think how the child will be mocked even if it isnt born deformed



p.s what are the birth defects that can happen i have heard downs syndrome is one

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Post by worstfriend » Fri Jan 30, 2004 10:25 am

Fidel, have you even read Oedipus?

When Oedipus is told by the Oracle that he will kill his father and marry his mother he is so horrified at the thought, he goes in the OPPOSITE direction to where he thinks they live so that he can avoid this fate.

When he finally finds out that he HAS killed his father and realises his children were borne by his mother, she hangs herself and he pokes both his eyes out with her cloak pins! You make it sound like everyone was happy about it! It's a play about the cruelty and injustice of the Fates, not how much of a good idea incest is. Incest is used to show just how horrific it can all get!

If you need any further indication of what people thought of Oedipus - modern civilisation has named what is considered a severe psychological problem after him - Oedipus complex.

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Post by smile » Fri Jan 30, 2004 11:19 am

Please stick to the problem at hand. If you want to talk about plays then please do so in the Chit Chat forum, not in someone's problem thread.

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Post by ramedud » Wed Nov 23, 2005 7:50 am

Worried4me,

It's a beautiful thing you're in love with your sister, don't feel strange or awkward. It's ok to fall in love with her, as long as it's consensual. From what I read you're 25 and she's 27 (or the other way around), either way you're legally adults. But there's a flipside to the coin, do you know if she has feelings for you? Try starting with the small things, like keeping in touch with her and have your typical conversations. When you feel it's the right time, gently tell her so she won't be so shocked, and reassure her you're not trying to hurt her or harm your relationship. Do keep in mind there's a chance it won't work out. If it happens, then it was meant to be, but if it doesn't it was also meant to be. You can call it destiny, I guess. At this point you might want to socialize with girls a lot more to get some experience. After all experience will give you invaluable relationship skills. Try a local college or club, it works good for me. I see you live in Ireland, but I'm not sure what the laws say about sibling marriage. If you're worried about having children with genetic mutations, you can consult a genetic counselor in your area. I'm sure there's a good one that specializes at a university in Corcaigh or Baile Atha Cliath (Dublin), shouldn't cost too much either.

Hope this helps.

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Post by JennaXXX » Sat Nov 26, 2005 12:27 pm

Am I mssing the point here? I dont want to sound out of order but this is NOT NATURAL!
He shouldnt be encouraged to act on his feelings towards his sister. It is illegal.
He needs to make a new life for himself, get out there and meet new girls instead of fantasizing about something that could never happen.

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Post by peecee » Sat Nov 26, 2005 4:22 pm

Hey, guys, don't worry any more; this thread is nearly two years old - so let's hope it all ended ok...

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Post by snowy » Sat Nov 26, 2005 9:24 pm

ramedud, that's some of the worst advice Ive ever read on these forums.


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Post by peecee » Sat Nov 26, 2005 9:37 pm

We probably won't ever find out; worried4me hasn't posted since 31st January, 2004.
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Post by ramedud » Sun Nov 27, 2005 9:03 pm

peecee wrote:We probably won't ever find out; worried4me hasn't posted since 31st January, 2004.


Yeah seriuosly

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