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should i tell him to his face that i really love him or not.

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should i tell him how i feel?

Postby saraha » Fri Jan 10, 2003 3:18 pm

i have been with my boyfriend 4 7 months.
i have told him that i love him twice.
first time he freaked out about 5 months ago because he though i wanted commitment and him to change.
but i dont want that.
i like him for the way he is.
i told him 3 months ago to. he didn't tell that he was happy or freaked out about it.
well i told him them 2 times via texts msgs.
i know he has strongs feelings for me, just he dont know how to show em or tell me at times.
i wanta tell him to his face, i not sure if it a good idea, or how to
wot do think.
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Postby Aldo » Fri Jan 10, 2003 11:37 pm

Go for it I think. He was probably a little shocked or not used to being told he is loved. I can say that no one has really said "I love you" to me! except in those stupid birthday, xmas cards. So when the first girl who says "i love you" to me I havnt a clue how I would react! I would probably be a little taken back at first, but I would try and say I love you back. So dont be put off at first, were guys! we need to be macho...and sensitive...its kinda hard to balance the two. :P

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Postby Bubble » Fri Jan 10, 2003 11:43 pm

Only tell him if you're 100% sure, cos once you say it, part of you releases your heart to that person.
Good luck, its a big step.
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re:should i tell him how i feel?

Postby saraha » Sun Jan 12, 2003 6:13 pm

wel me chatted with him to day.
i relised as much as i love i dont think i should tell him.
i dont think he like it, as he never wants to know, well never ask how i feel.
i dont wanta make a fool outer my self.
i wanta tel him,
but i know deep down he dont yet feel the same.

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Postby Gem » Thu Jan 16, 2003 1:11 pm

Maybe that's why you feel so strongly about him? Its the same with everyone, as soon as something is denied to them, they want it more. Love is a special thing, make sure you're telling someone who is worth it.
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