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I dont understand...Help me please :(

Postby evilmage » Mon Mar 24, 2003 10:28 pm

Welll It all started when I met this guy at a school disco (Im 13 and hes 14) and we danced. Nothing happened so I didnt really care about it.
Then my big sis knew his bro, and through his bro, the guy (now known as rich) asked for my number. I gave it and was really excited.
We got really goood friends and he told me he fancied me, and I really believed it and was falling for him. He never asked me out though.
Then he told me he was moving to america at the end of the year, and I also found out loadsa dodgy stuff about him. But I got over it and we were still really good friends.
I realised I was in love with him and didnt know what to do cause he was moving and it would be really hard to let him go. But under many close friends advice, I decided to tell him how I felt.
I did, and he didnt really give a straight answer. He kept going '...uh...I havent really thought about it...' and stuff and as it doesnt exactly sound much to build a relationship on, I made my excuses and hung up.
We used to talk every day but he hasnt called back. And theres a new girl thats crazy about him now, and hes texting her now loads... and I just keep thinking' that used to be me...' and she told me about it, and it turns out that he told her about me asking him out.
I dont know what to do. Should I call him and forget what happened?
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Postby misatok11 » Mon Mar 24, 2003 11:09 pm

Call him and talk to him. Ask him whats happening between you and him, then ask whats happening with this other girl. That way you should get a straight answer. Dont be devastated if he likes this new girl though. You can still be a good friend to him and sometimes thats better than BF GF.
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Thankies!

Postby evilmage » Tue Mar 25, 2003 7:34 pm

Thanks hon! Guess what? He kept calling me and stuff today! I will just call him back.... :D
Oh and that girl...I was really nice to her today...and it wasnt to get closer to him or anything!
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Postby Llisa » Wed Mar 26, 2003 6:44 am

Hi hun,
word of caution love...you're young my dear! You're going to get our heart broken a lot over the next few years. I hope you don't get yourself all tied up and this and then smashed on the pavement when things don't go your way.
Will be praying for you
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Postby evilmage » Thu Mar 27, 2003 6:21 pm

I will try not too! Were ok now, me and rich, though he said that the reason he didnt say yes was because hes leaving in 4 monthes, which I think he was just saying that instead of saying that he didnt fancy me. Ah well!
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Postby sophie » Sat Mar 29, 2003 10:02 am

good luck if that what you want, but remember dont get too involved with this boy, he is leaving in 4 months and you will be heartbroken when he goes.

Is it worth the heartache, maybe it is good luck anyway! :D
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Postby evilmage » Wed Apr 02, 2003 7:06 pm

Oh god. More has happened....NEED HELP!
Well...he keeps innuending that he wants to get off with me, and asking what would I have done if he had tried to get off with me at this party and stuff...and I was like um.... kiss you back? But then I said ' I wouldnt wanna make a scene would I?!' And that kinda put him in his place for a bit.
But the problem is that I just sked him out like a couple of weeks ago, and he as good as said no, so why is he flirting and stuff now?
And also, Ive realised that I dont really fancy him as much now, Ive noticed loadsa bad things about him, and he rings me all the time now. Its really weird...hmm.
Why does it happen that whenever you get over a guy they start to show interest?! GRR!
Oh yeh. And I keep gettin hounded by his exs (and theres LOADS). They appear to be nice, but just wanna know how to get closer to him. Its really sad.
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