by Bubble » Tue Apr 08, 2003 11:07 am
Well you can either confront him about them, which then results in you admitting you were sneaking around and may display a lack of trust, resulting in an argument, or you can let it go.
I think it just depends on the nature of the messages and how strongly you feel. My ex used to text other girls and it used to drive me mad, so much so that i almost ended it with him, he soon stopped i can tell you.
I think with guys, they do it just so that they know they are still attractive and 'have it' with other girls when in a relationship. I don't think it's nothing much to worry about in his case, but if you can't forget it then speak to him, just make sure that he doesn't turn it round onto how you found them.
Best of luck.
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*Donna*
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