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Postby dark_talon » Tue Jan 10, 2006 3:25 pm

You came into this world by yourself and you will leave it by yourself. That is a fact. So why always be desperate to find a relationship with someone. You do not have to be dependent on any one. To be single and live independently is something you should cherish and embrace. It does not mean that you have to be single forever and not find that special someone. It just means that you will be a stronger person inside when you do find them.

There is nothing wrong with being in a relationship or being single. The point is that being single doesn't mean you have to be unhappy because you are on your own. My philosophy in life is that there is only one person that you can completely rely on, and that is yourself. That doesn't mean you cannot have support from others, but that you can cope on your own. That you would be able to cope if you ever were completely on your own.
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Postby Fidel » Tue Jan 10, 2006 3:59 pm

You can listen to Morrissey and understand
Last night I dreamt that somebody loved me.
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Postby amanda11 » Tue Jan 10, 2006 6:31 pm

well i am in a relationship, but what i really miss the most about being single is
NOT HAVING TO SHARE A BED!!!!!!!
especially when your partner tosses and turns/ snores like a congested bull!!!!!!!!!!!!
I'm spending the night on my own tonight and i'm so looking forward to a good nights sleep.

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Postby L0SER » Tue Jan 10, 2006 7:10 pm

Oh.... i dont think i ever ever ever ever ever ever ever ever ever (X10) want to be in another proper relationship again!!!!!

Even if it means ill be hated by all women - i never want to fall in love again! NEVER!
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Postby amanda11 » Tue Jan 10, 2006 7:36 pm

aaaaaaaawwww don't say that! yes being in love can break your heart and it can drive you mad... there are loads of negatives, but the good parts of being in love cancel them out a million times!!!!
i bet one day a special lady will change your mind... who knows!
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Postby SunBum » Tue Jan 10, 2006 7:49 pm

I'm still waiting for that day then and have been for past 2 and 1/2 years, I agree with what Dark Talon says though.


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Postby LME79 » Tue Jan 10, 2006 7:55 pm

dark_talon wrote:You came into this world by yourself and you will leave it by yourself. That is a fact. So why always be desperate to find a relationship with someone. You do not have to be dependent on any one. To be single and live independently is something you should cherish and embrace. It does not mean that you have to be single forever and not find that special someone. It just means that you will be a stronger person inside when you do find them.

There is nothing wrong with being in a relationship or being single. The point is that being single doesn't mean you have to be unhappy because you are on your own. My philosophy in life is that there is only one person that you can completely rely on, and that is yourself. That doesn't mean you cannot have support from others, but that you can cope on your own. That you would be able to cope if you ever were completely on your own.


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Postby spider girl » Tue Jan 10, 2006 11:23 pm

The only good thing about being single I could think of was you can fart and burp as much as you like. :oops:
But then I aslo realised I already do that and I'm with Dwayne.

Okay I think that's enough about my gassy issues. :o :lol:
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Postby SunBum » Wed Jan 11, 2006 1:32 am

You sound just like my ex and she was worse than me ...!!!! at least now I only have the dogs to contend with !!!

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Postby Liquidius » Fri Jan 13, 2006 12:44 pm

But I hate being single.

Benefits yes, but being in a relationship, being in love, beats ANYTHING being single can do...


I'd have to disagree with you there I'm afraid. I think that you can only really be happy in a relationship, if you're happy with being on your own firstly :)

Anyway...

Here's a list of things I really enjoy about being single:

- Sleeping like a starfish in my double bed
- Not having to share the duvet!
- Not having to share anything for that matter....
- Not having to inform someone what I'm doing!
- Being shallow, and dressing up and going out with the intention to get male attenion!
- Being a slob, and sitting around in whatever I like!
- Smelling horribly, and not having to do anything about it.
- Eating cake, and lots of it, and putting on weight and not having to lose it for anyone but myself.
- Placing silly bets (like not having sex for a whole year lol...)
- Putting me first, and being self centered for a while.
- Enjoying being on my own.
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Postby Wordman » Fri Jan 13, 2006 12:51 pm

Being able to hang around the house in my underwear.
Beware of freezer-dwelling, ice cream eating Arctic Hamsters! :o

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Postby kitten » Fri Jan 13, 2006 3:42 pm

Wordman wrote:Not having to share the duvet.

:D



Played duvet tug of war last night, each time I got it back hubby took it again, I ended up sleeping right next to him to keep warm, then he accused me of hogging the bed!! :lol:

Have to say also wonder around in underwear anyway!
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Postby Wordman » Fri Jan 13, 2006 3:44 pm

kitten wrote:
Have to say also wonder around in underwear anyway!


Your as bad as me!

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Postby Moose » Fri Jan 13, 2006 3:46 pm

Wearing whatever you like in bed, such as awful pyjamas, and three pairs of socks. And a hat.

Not that I do.
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Postby Liquidius » Fri Jan 13, 2006 3:53 pm

There is nothing wrong with wearing a hat to bed...

when it's particularly cold...
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